If you stay current on social media then you have probably encountered multiple memes that encourage a "side chick/nigga" culture. I'll be the first to say that I am not amused. Apparently I missed the memo when it become socially accepted to have a mistress and uncool to be faithful. Social media has taken what a real relationship should be and dropped it on the deep end.
Many of you who are saying, "relax, they're just jokes; they mean no harm" are only fooling yourselves. We have to realize that media penetrates us at a subconscious level. By constantly reposting these images, we are perpetuating the ideology that adultery is okay and that it is okay to have a man or woman on side. We reiterate this idea that one should have a "main" and a "side" instead of having an ONLY.
It makes me upset when guys post this because they are the ones calling girls crazy when they catch feelings and become jealous but who is giving them a reason to be. I am in no way condoning snooping or mistrusting one's man or woman but why should someone give their significant other reasons to mistrust them by endorsing this kind of behavior? It's foolish. I'm getting to that age that I don't have time to play games and focus my attention on more than one person. Either you're with me or you're not.
At the end of the day, one must know their worth before others lower one's value. Having a "side chick" will not get you far in life. The end result will leave one more misery than wahala than one bargained for.~
What do you guys think? How do YOU feel about the side chick/nigga meme culture? Let me know in the comments below!
It makes me upset when guys post this because they are the ones calling girls crazy when they catch feelings and become jealous but who is giving them a reason to be. I am in no way condoning snooping or mistrusting one's man or woman but why should someone give their significant other reasons to mistrust them by endorsing this kind of behavior? It's foolish. I'm getting to that age that I don't have time to play games and focus my attention on more than one person. Either you're with me or you're not.
At the end of the day, one must know their worth before others lower one's value. Having a "side chick" will not get you far in life. The end result will leave one more misery than wahala than one bargained for.~
What do you guys think? How do YOU feel about the side chick/nigga meme culture? Let me know in the comments below!